Just an idea about magic

What if?

The first time it happened I was five years old and just learning to write more than my name and dog and cat. Writing fascinated me. Even before that, as soon as I could hold a pencil, I would sneak one of my daddy's yellow legal tablets and scribble lines across the page, pretending to write. A blank page is a siren call to me. I can’t help but put something on it, scribbles, doodles, whatever. Stories are best, of course. I love stories, telling, writing, reading.

And my stories always start with a character—of course, what else? For my first story, the character was a dog. I wanted a dog. I begged and begged my mother. Pleaded with my father. But we moved a lot, and they wouldn’t hear of it. Too much trouble. No place for it to live. Costs too much to feed. Dogs are noisy. The excuses were unlimited. Dog hair all over the place. That was mother’s favorite. I’m allergic. That was daddy's. Then he’d sneeze not very convincingly. We really did move a lot. And lived in little apartments and sometimes motels.

So I decided to write myself a dog. I carefully sharpened a pencil with the little knife on daddy's key ring. When mommy wasn’t looking. She’d have had a fit. I pulled a chair up to the desk in the motel room we were staying in. Turned on the desk light. Sat down. Got up to get a pillow from the bed for the chair. I was pretty short even for my age. And started writing.

‘My dog is black, with short kerly hare.’ That didn’t look right, so I asked mommy to look at it. I started over on a new page. ‘My dog is black, with short, curly hair. He is about…’ I thought for a minute, erased that last part and wrote ‘He is halfway to my knees tall. He has little white teeth and he smiles a lot and loves me more than anything. He doesn’t eat anything much and he doesn’t leave dog hair on anything. When we have to move he will sit on my lap in the car and won’t take up too much space. He will only bark when I am in danger because he is my guard and best friend. He has little pointy ears that stand up. And blue eyes.” I had to ask my mother to spell some words. I forgot about my father's allergies.

Every night before I went to bed for the next three days, I read the words in a whisper so they wouldn’t hear. Every night I dreamed about my little black dog. I wrote more each morning. ‘His name is Tiger.’ ‘He has one white foot.’ ‘His eyelashes are very long.’  ‘He loves to play catch with a little red ball.’  ‘His water dish is yellow with blue flowers around the edges and his food bowl is pink.’  ‘He doesn’t like for me to tie bows around his neck and paws them off when I try.’  ‘He has a collar with a tag that has his name on it.’  ‘His tail is short and he wiggles all over when he wags it.’

For three days I wrote my dog. The night of the third day I finally wrote ‘The End’ and went to bed.

The next morning when my dad went out to McDonald’s for our breakfast Tiger was sitting just outside the door to our room, his yellow water bowl with blue flowers, his pink food bowl were right there. He had a ragged red ribbon around his neck and a red ball in his mouth. The tag on his collar said, Tiger.

That was the first time it happened.

The dog went straight to the pound.

That night I started writing again. "My mother and father love dogs. They love my dog Tiger." I wrote for three days and whispered the words for three nights. 

Daddy went back to the pound and got Tiger.

That was the second time it happened.

 

 

 

 

Thanksgiving

Well it's over. And now there is snow. I am pretty much snowed in so I thought I'd write about our Thanksgiving. It is the biggest holiday of the year for my family. I am the oldest of seven siblings and everyone of them has kids and grandkids and inlaws and often friends who come. For years it was celebrated at my farm in Locust Grove where my oldest grandson lives now with his six kids--his, hers, and ours. There were hikes through the pastures and woods, rocks to throw in the creek, a horse to saddle for the kids to ride, piles of leaves to dive into, sometimes peacocks to chase despite that being forbidden, sofas to fall asleep to the football game on, more desserts than anyone could ever eat. My favorite is pecan pie and whipped cream without too much sugar. There were always more than 20, and often, like this year, more than sixty.

Traditions other than the traditional pecan pie (Myrna) and pumpkin pie(Jeri) include Chris's (now Abbie's) cheese grits, Pris's (now Lorie's) oriental slaw, Lorie's sweet potatoes with marshmallows (I like it best when she puts bourbon in it), my dressing and gravy, Bob's smoked turkey and ham, some wonderful things that BJ bakes, and lots more that I'm sure I've left out. 

Now we have a great day at my brother's place on Grand Lake. Lots of room for kids to run, a lake for parents and grandparents to worry about. No horse or peacocks, but beautiful walks and lots of leaves to kick. 

I can't remember a Thanksgiving day in more than fifty years that the weather wasn't beautiful and it was again this year. The snow came later. 

All my kids were here: from Stillwater, Austin, and Brazil. With grandkids from Locust Grove. The newest great grand girl was born on the Monday before TG, so she and her parents opted out. 

On Tuesday night it was just me and the kids and grandkids. We had coneys. A family tradition. Only fifteen of us. 

On Wednesday night I had dinner here for brothers, sister, nieces, nephews, sisters in law, and us. There were only twenty-five. 

On Thursday morning I cooked a turkey, dressing, and gravy to take to brother Bob's. We expected seventy, but only sixty four were there. I hope i remember next year that when seventy are expected a goodly percentage of those are kids who eat nothing but dessert. Too busy playing.

We were missing five who were in Minneapolis, one sister in law who was with her parents, four who were with the other set of parents. But there were several guests to make up the numbers so we didn't feel lonely. In the past we've had guests from Switzerland, Germany, Mexico, and Japan. And probably more places that I don't remember. I especially remember the young man from Japan who was convinced he would insult us by not eating some of everything. He was about to bust when someone finally told him it wasn't possible and it was okay to leave something on his plate. And the kids from Switzerland with broad smiles and eyes big as saucers as they were led around on my daughters big team penning horse. cameras flashing all around. 

Family this year came from Florida, Oregon, Texas, and Brazil. Minnesotans and Bostonians were in Minneapolis.

No matter how hard you try to circulate, it's impossible to talk with everyone, and every time you move there is a kid racing by chasing another kid. Or a hoard of child locusts headed for the dessert table. Again.

It's chaos. It's wonderful. In my lifetime I've only missed two, maybe three Thanksgivings with my family. We are so lucky. As long as we don't talk politics everything is fine and the stories we tell about growing up with six kids, a saintly mother, and an iconoclastic father get funnier every year. One of these days someone will remember to punch the record button on their iPhone and we'll start our book.